Cousin Declines Obligation to Babysit, Sparks Outburst from Demanding Relative, Approaching Mental Breakdown over Refusal

In a time when many families are navigating the challenges of lockdown, one teenager finds herself overwhelmed by the demands placed upon her. A woman is reportedly demanding her teenage cousin to cook, clean, help with chores, and babysit her toddler every day, causing the cousin to feel overwhelmed and struggle with schoolwork.

Rachel Charlupski, founder of The Babysitting Company in Miami, advises that babysitting requires 100% of your attention and your only focus should be the kids. "Parents want to see that you're making good judgment all around," she says. "If you're overrun, you're not going to give anything your all."

Tatiana Cruz, who babysat part-time during her college career, emphasizes the need for flexibility when looking after other people's children. "Things can change unexpectedly," she notes. Cruz also advises prioritizing schoolwork. "Put yourself first," she urges. "Yes, you have a responsibility to the family you sit for, but your education needs to come first."

Cruz also highlights the importance of learning to say no if you can't handle it. "Overextension can lead to problems with both school and work," she warns. She often had to decline weekend babysitting requests due to upcoming schoolwork.

Charlupski also cautions against sacrificing mental health or own well-being while juggling school and babysitting work. It's crucial to ensure enough rest, proper nutrition, and stress relief while balancing these responsibilities.

Even at night, a child might not sleep due to various reasons such as time changes, having a new person in the house, or not feeling well, according to Charlupski.

As for the best way for the cousin family to handle childcare during lockdown, a poll question was posed with options including parents sharing childcare equally, hiring external help if possible, asking family but respecting their limits, and alternating childcare with work schedules.

In light of these challenges, it's important to remember that anyone can write on Bored Panda, offering a platform for sharing experiences and seeking advice. So, if you find yourself in a similar situation, don't hesitate to share your story. And remember, it's always okay to ask for help when you need it.

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Cousin Declines Obligation to Babysit, Sparks Outburst from Demanding Relative, Approaching Mental Breakdown over Refusal