Midlife stalemates often manifest through recurring, subtle actions

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In a world that often values youth and speed, it's comforting to know that personal evolution doesn't have an expiration date. Tina Fey, in her insightful words, reminds us that it's not about a grand, dramatic overhaul, but small, intentional changes.

Take, for example, Colonel Harland Sanders, who founded his franchise company Kentucky Fried Chicken (KFC) at the age of 62 in 1952. After years of perfecting his secret recipe, he sold it to other restaurants, proving that it's never too late to pursue your dreams.

Similarly, Morgan Freeman didn't land a major film role until he was 52, Vera Wang didn't design her first dress until 40, and Julia Child didn't publish her first cookbook until she was 49. These stories serve as a testament to the fact that age is just a number when it comes to personal growth and achievement.

Feeling stagnant in life can be a sign of unhealthy patterns creeping in, often disguised as responsibility, stability, or "being realistic". Fulfillment requires intention and reflection on one's purpose and goals. Prioritizing oneself is not selfish, it's essential for living with clarity, purpose, and energy.

Dave Ramsey once said, "We buy things we don't need with money we don't have to impress people we don't like." Constantly putting others first can become a way to avoid facing one's own desires, fears, and potential. It's important to remember that you are allowed to want more and question the script of your life, even now, especially now.

The first step to evolving is awareness and intentional shifts. Many people get stuck in a cycle of comparison, measuring their worth against neighbors, coworkers, or social media feeds. This mindset of comparing oneself to others shifts focus outward rather than inward, prioritizing appearances over progress.

"Too late" is often a disguise for fear or uncertainty. Remember, it's never too late to start again or to make changes. Embrace the journey of personal evolution, and let's strive for a life filled with purpose, fulfillment, and intentional growth.